CONFESSION: My favorite DA II pairings are F!Mage!Hawke/Anders and M!Rogue!Hawke/Merrill. I was really sad to discover that apparently according to fandom, I’m “doing it wrong”.
I wasn’t aware there is a way of “doing it wrong”. Oops.
I say keep calm and continue to romance the shit out of whoever you like, OP. It’s your game, after all. :)